Saturday, October 8, 2011

The Words We Speak Can Be Very Destructive

What are words? Well words are the expression of my thoughts and are the essence of who I am. You can never get to know someone without listening to their words. Their words are expressing what they are feeling and the kind of person that they really are. Just think for a moment of what our world would be like if we were unable to speak words.
Some might think that it would be a better place, and they might have an argument for that, but when you really come down to it, we would be hard pressed to have any real value in this world and in ourselves without words. It would make for a very dull and unresponsive society.
From the time you were just an infant in a crib, you soon learned very quickly how to express yourself and draw attention to what you wanted through, crying at first, but than latter you learned to develop words and sentences and you started on your journey to self discovery and the world that you live in.
Remember meeting that very special someone that you really wanted to impress and get to know. You carefully put together just the right words that you thought would attract them to you and get them to like you as much as you liked them, but you soon realized that they were doing the same thing, and you had to learn to listen as well to their words, if you wanted to get to know them. While this might take a little longer because the average women speaks about 20,000 words in a day while men only speak about 7000, you might be sitting there for quite awhile men. (just a little joke ladies...very little joke)

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Five Ways to Keep Your Relationship From Drowning

We always talk about how to salvage a relationship or how to get a girlfriend back even after she's already broken up with us. There are a lot of tips floating online teaching you how to con and manipulate your ex-girlfriend into winning her over. How sad is this reality that most of us expect that we will break up with our girlfriends at some point, that there are ready-made plans for retrieving them all around the Internet?
I dare to say that we must transform this school of thought: how about, for once, we think about ways to actually PREVENT any kind of breakup from happening? To try to save a relationship even before it sinks down the drain? If you truly love your girlfriend, I trust that you will do everything in your power to prevent any event that will lead to a breakup. And as it has been said time and time again, prevention is better than cure. Therefore, I shall proceed with this article with that principle in mind: how to maintain a happy, satisfying relationship.